For years, I rented land from my parents and other neighbors. When my parents passed away, it became a challenge to rent from several of my siblings. Now, as my neighbors have passed away, renting from some of their heirs has become a challenge as well. How can I make sure my son doesn’t have to go through what I’ve had to?
Negotiating rents can bring tension. You can’t solve all your neighbors’ problems, but you can solve your own potential family problems for your son.
The first step is to determine how the rent rate will be established.
The good news is you get to decide which of these methods is best for your situation.
The second step is knowing where these rental agreements need to be included.
If there is a third party, there should definitely be a separate agreement in place. It is surprising how many times rental agreements are not in place between long-term landlords and tenants. That is not a problem until eventually there is a problem like you mentioned.
A few other rental details should also be included or considered:
Often I hear landlords, whether they are siblings or a third party, say, “It’s not all about the money. We want someone who will take care of our ground, mow the ditches, improve fertility, reduce compaction, plant cover crops, and give us maps.” They will even repeat, “It’s not about the money.” Then shortly after the conversation begins, they mention they have had several offers for more than you are paying. At that moment you wish you had agreements outlining how rents will be calculated. Without guidelines, it’s not just about the money, it’s ALL about the money – and most people like more of it.
Myron Friesen is co-owner of Farm Financial Strategies in Osage, Iowa. During the past 19 years, he has worked exclusively with farm families across the Midwest to develop farm transition strategies. Friesen grew up on a Mountain Lake, Minnesota, farm. He owns and operates a 910-acre crop and livestock farm with his wife and four children. farmestate.com